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I’m honestly so broke.”In interviews, young women and men involved in sex work—not professionals forced into the life, but amateurs, kids—in Austin, New York, and Los Angeles, talked mostly about needing money.They were squeezed by college tuition, crushed by student loans and the high cost of living.
“They want the girlfriend experience, without having to deal with an actual girlfriend.”“The girlfriend experience” is the term women in the sex trade use for a service involving more than just sex. People who make seven dollars an hour are oppressed by the patriarchy.”“She’s in control of the male gaze,” says another woman at the table, Erin, 22.“I thought about doing it,” says Kristen, 21, tentatively.A growing number of young people are selling their bodies online to pay student loans, make the rent, or afford designer labels.Is it just an unorthodox way to make ends meet or a new kind of exploitation? The waiter with the handlebar mustache encourages us to “participate in the small-plate culture.” Geraldine’s, the swank spot in Austin’s Hotel Van Zandt, is brimming with tech guys, some loudly talking about money. “I’m networking,” Miranda maintains, “learning things from older men who give me insights into the business world. I’ve learned so many soft skills that will help me in my career.“While in college,” she goes on, “I’ve had the ability to focus on developing myself because I’m not slaving away at a minimum-wage job.On Tumblr, babies exchange tips on the best sugaring sites and how much to charge.They post triumphant pictures of wads of cash, designer shoes, and bags.
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